::snort::

So I've spent the last two days giving my darling husband exactly what he wants - time alone; complete 'him' time. i.e. I've been ignoring him. Well, not exactly ignoring. I've just gone my own way, taking care of myself and the kids. I was thinking to myself yesterday morning "what exactly am I fighting for?" So I spent that day and evening considering at various moments - what would be different if he was gone. Well, I washed the dishes after dinner and thought 'well, there'd be less dishes'....and I did laundry and I thought 'well, there'd be less laundry'.....and when I finally got a few minutes to sit down and unwind I thought, 'well, there are four of us and only three televisions so I'd actually get to watch something besides Dora once in a while.' Other then that, I couldn't think of any other way my life would change. Affection? Sex? Dates? Romance? Conversation? Can't lose what you don't have. What would he be losing? His cheerleader. His supporter. The person who makes his life comfortable. The person who cares. Hmmm So this begs the question (at least for me it does) why? Why would he want to leave? Yeah, I agree. I don't think I'm getting the whole story either. So anyway, I get this phone call today. He's kind of hesitant on the other end.....He says, "I've noticed there's been some tension between us. Are you mad at me?"