Fork in the head Friday; early edition
Yes, I realize it is only Thursday, but my vacation starts at exactly 3pm this afternoon so there is a good chance I'll ignore my computer (and hence my blog) for the next week or so.
This week's Fork in the head goes to none other then The Paperweight. Yes, I realize that this whole blog is one giant dedication to stabbing him in the head with a fork, but this week, he deserves a little something extra. Like, perhaps, if I put some salt on the fork before I thrust it into his skull.
It has come to my attention this week that The Paperweight has yet to tell his family that we are getting divorced. True, the papers will not be actually filed until next week and perhaps he is waiting until the deal is 'done' before dropping this little bombshell (his family adores me). However, I came to find that his family doesn't even know that he moved out.
So what happens? He avoids them until the next family function (probably Labor Day) and when they ask where I'm at, he says oh, we got divorced a month ago?
His reasoning? He's stalling; particulary with his dad. His exact words were "My dad thinks the world of you and I don't want to hurt him."
To which I responded, 'Yeah, well, I thought the world of you and that didn't stop you from hurting me.'
Yeah, I know - bitter much?
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On a better note, I'm seeing Eduardo tomorrow.
(insert erotic moan here)
And I've gone over the feedback everyone has left and wanted to just note the fact that I'm just enjoying the 'now' and not worrying about anything more. Granted, he's the kind of guy you'd like to have 'something' with. However, right now, the 'something' I'm going for seems to not be a relationship. And I'm okay with that. I need the time for my heart to heal.
From my horoscope today:
Pay attention. The universe is telling you that the outcomes aren't what matter right now. Focus on the process, not the end goal.
Focus on the process.....Who am I to argue with that?
posted by ƒåυνέ @ 11:05 AM
6 Comments:
Here's some unsolicited advice (isn't all advice?) If his family asks you where he is or it comes up somehow, tell them the truth. You don't want it coming back at you that it was YOUR secret and not his.
and by the way, I say Salt and Vinager his ass. What.A.Jerk!
Have a sweet ass vacation girlie!
You go girl. Have a good week off. I tagged you but it can wait. Especially if there is hot monkey sex in the future!
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And where do we go from here
Which is the way that's clear
Still looking for that blue jean, baby queen
Prettiest girl I ever seen
See her shake on the movie screen, Jimmy Dean
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Have some good "process" on this date!!! oh, and no wonder you call him the paperweight! What a loser!
Oh, he sounds like a wimpy paperweight...
Enjoy vacation, and Eduardo...
No wonder he's the soon-to-be-ex. I've always marvelled at what motivates people to be so detached from the world. Life's too short to be that way: you'd think folks would have gotten the message by now.
Good thing you've moved on.
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