mucho atractivo

Both Serenity and Beth asked for an Eduardo update, and who am I to not brag?

That Friday (date #3) was very nice. And not just because we had amazing sex again (though we did), but it was a new experience - for both of us. After the truly amazing sex (wonder how much I can say that and get away with it), he cooked me lunch again. Then we...uh, just kind of hung out. I was browsing Eduardo's bookcase while he cooked when I found The Alchemist and he commented that it was his favorite book and that I should read it. He then took me by hand and lead me to the couch. He stated, "Sit here and read while I cook."

Okay, now do you not love him already? Do men have any concept what that one little sentence will do to a girl? Forget flowers and candy. Forget blow-smoke-up-my-ass flattery. Men - Repeat after me: "Sit here and read while I cook."

So I did. I got comfy on the couch and started to read. We had lunch together then he suggested that I may want to continue reading, because he could tell that I was already totally sucked in to the story. I kind of hesitated asking him if that was really okay - he wouldn't feel all rejected and unloved? - and he stated, 'if you want to read, read. Do you mind if I do some stuff while you read?' When I said no, he thought that was cool. So we spent the afternoon in his livingroom, side-by-side, me doing my thing and he doing his. We talked occassionally. We kissed occassionally. But we each did our own thing.

He called me the next morning to tell me how wonderful it all was and how much he enjoyed the day I spent with him. He told me he even bragged to his friend about it. I, of course, was perplexed. So it turns you on to get pretty much ignorned for 3 hours while I read on your couch, eh?

Apparently, yes. He loves that I'm my own person. He loves that I'm not needy or high-maintenance. Evidently his last girlfriend would never let him read while she was watching tv. He had to watch with her so they could talk during commercials. Okay, so, she was a psycho. All the better for me.

So that was our third and last date to date. My schedule has been to crazy since but we will be seeing each other this coming weekend.

In other news:
My vacation was wonderful and it now sucks to be back in my office wearing a suit.
I wore sandals and painted my toenails red in retaliation.
My lawyer filed the Complaint for Divorce on Friday morning.
My divorce will be final sometime in October.
The Girl turned 4 this past week.
I miss my Baby.
I got to see Pirates of the Caribbean 2 yesterday and loved it.
Johnny Depp is just yummy.

So what's going on your world? Fill me in.