I probably shouldn't hold my breathe
Paperweight was here visiting the kids today and we got to talking. I actually told him everything that I stated in my last post. He took it remarkably well. Or he doesn't realize I actually meant all of that; I'm not entirely sure which. But I tend to be cynical (no, really. I'm not this upbeat irl you know, lmao) so it's hard to say. I was very surprised by his reaction/response. He actually kept his mouth shut and listened to everything I had to say. Then he told me he loved me. I asked him how he knew that. He said because he thinks about me all the time. That's the first time, and I told him this, that he ever said that or anything remotely that romantic in about a decade and a half.... Now, before you get all smoopy head-over-heels in love with my Paperweight, realize that this man is $350 behind in our agreed upon child support. And about an hour after this little heart-to-heart of ours, he asked to borrow $300 off of me. Hmmm any chance he's going to use that money to buy me yellow roses?
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Hello, Michele sent me. Sounds like you had a rough day. I truly hope it gets better!
Oh Jeez...
I don't even know what to say. I hope you didn't lend him any money!
You need to get an agreement in place to protect yourself and your children. He's not going to willingly see that he needs to be paying child support -- he's going to have to have the courts tell him this. What a shame that is, too. It should just come naturally.
Run girl. Run away. Okay, I can't really say that. Anyone who reads my blog will know I'm completely full of shit. But good luck. Who knows, maybe he will change. Then again, maybe he won't.
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