You always find a way to keep me right here waiting
So it's been three months since the Paperweight walked out. In that time he's given me $800. Total. For two kids. According to the Pennsylvania Child Support Estimate calculator, that's how much I should be receiving each month. It's been two months since Paperweight asked to move back home. You may recall that I said I wouldn't even consider it until we started seeing a marriage counselor. He said he'd find one and make an appointment. It's been two months. Nothing. I brought it up at the one month mark and he claimed to have found a therapist but hadn't yet had time to call and make an appointment. Um, that's some busy schedule, isn't it? Yeah, I think he's trying to keep me hanging. He knows I don't want to go the lawyer route if we decide to go to counseling and work things out. And he knows that if I do get a lawyer, I'm going all the way. I don't do things half-assed, and I don't procrastinate. When I decide to do something, I do it. I think it's time for another confrontation....
posted by ƒåυνέ @ 1:19 PM
5 Comments:
3 months is more then enough time to come to ones senses. Should I come over and pop-knot him upside his head and wake him from his obvious delirium?
Ok, you read my blog so I'm returning the favor. Sounds like my ex and your paperweight could be cousins. Lots of hugs - because I've been there and I know what it's like.
Swing by and pick us up on the way, Mad. We'll help!
You deserve to be romanced and wined and dined by someone who doesn't take you for granted sweet pea. You deserve to move forward. I hope you do it, and that paperweight is forced to face the reality of child support and responsibility.
Wow good luck with all that. While I always hope that people can work it out and stay together I know inside my heart that they can't and the end finds its way eventually (insert my marriage here).
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