Seriously dude
My boobs have gotten bigger.
My back has been hurting a little more than normal but I blamed it on my new exercise regimen (that's a whole other blog entry). Then I kind of noticed that the-girls were getting in the way a little more than normal too. Water retention? don't think so..."that time" has come and gone.
Who has a growth spurt at this age?! Hm, I'm probably just being stupid.
Now, to all of you pain-in-the-asses who commented and/or emailed me about my last post....thank you for caring about me enough to share your concern. I didn't always agree with what people had to say (for the most part, actually) but that too is a whole other blog entry. Besides, I'm still not ready to 'discuss' publicly. But I did appreciate the good and thoughtful wishes.
And that did make me feel positive enough to discuss the issues with The Thing again. He didn't get/recognize most of what I was saying. So, I started pointing that shit out to him when he was actually doing it.
Last night, for example, he pulled one of his 'I'm going to ask you what you want and then do the exact opposite and then think everything's cool because at least I asked you what you wanted' deals. On a scale of 1 to 10 on it relating to a major issue it rated only a 2 but it's that kind of exact deal that he'll pull on 10's as well. So instead of me doing my grin-and-bear-it-then-blow-up-later deals, I pointed that shit out to him.
He had a little 'a-ha!' moment and we were able to discuss our issues some.
At least we did, until he looked at me and said, "Hey, have your boobs gotten bigger?"
posted by ƒåυνέ @ 7:34 AM
6 Comments:
Every time a man listens, your breasts grow. That's what I've heard. It's kind of like that angel's wings thing.
LOL! Man, I wish what loren said was true. That is hilarious.
Best wishes, honey. At least he's willing to listen.
Mine got bigger as I got older, but then I gained a little weight. I've lost it, but the boobs remain.
When hubby and I first got together, I had to bonk him over the head a few times to get him to understand. His EX and I are totally opposites, so he wasn't used to 'me'.
LMFAO though, I'm JUST like the Thing!! I'll ask hubby and do the complete opposite, not cause I don't appreciate his opinion, I've already formed mine, but just wanted to find out what his was. He's learned now, he just lets me do as I please.
Glad you two worked some of your issues out.
Seriously though...if you need someone to chat with, I'm available!!!
Ummm... not to point out the obvious, but any chance you're pregnant? Boobs getting bigger.... back issues.... how long since "that time"?
I'm still with the love of my life after all of these years but trust me, it was frustrating work for the first 4 or 5 years. She's not a "talker" but would say "sorry" all of the time when I brought something up for conversation . Not that "sorry" changed any of the behavior things. I moved into her house and it took awhile for her to "get" that I needed to have my life incorporated with hers in more ways than she might have imagined. Stick with it and keep calling him on shit. And remember to laugh too.
I'll have you know some of us go to great efforts trying to get our breasts recognized. We have been known to push more air in our lungs for men to notice, or tilt our head back and thrust our ta-ta's forward, but that can make you dizzy.
Signed a proud member of the "Pain in the ass" group
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